We are more alike than not.

Especially when it’s between good and evil.

Narcissists, shame, and why they can’t apologize.

This was the energy that nearly killed her. And hardly anyone ever saw that side of them. They flipped into motherly victim instantly. The whole ordeal was about making sure nobody knew it existed. She knew, so they tried to destroy her with truths about themselves.

Especially when it’s after you were abandoned by the only person you knew, made you feel safe, and could help.

Or less than nine months.

THIS.

“If she’s pointing out how your behavior hurt her, that’s not conflict - that’s communication. Don’t gaslight her saying all she wants to do is argue. That’s her trying to be heard. Dismissing that is manipulation. It’s narcissistic.”

I’m sure they’re nice but

It’s not community, it’s not a clique, it’s a cult.

He and his past made her out to be crazy or some threat for living with the symptoms from how they both traumatized her on purpose. And refuse to stop.

You did this to me. And you refuse to stop making it worse. 5 years of abuse before the healing time can even start? For trusting you? When you refuse to even give me answers and the person you abandoned me for won’t even give me peace?

Would he approve of him? Change.