Ngl flea problem could be solved if you only stuck them to your friends instead of strangers, you don’t know what someone’s been through and realizing someone snuck up behind them and made physical contact with no consent can be upsetting to the point of ruining the con for them
Sep 7, 2026 · 2:59 PM UTC
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@GHRILZZ “Ugh everyone hates fun a whimsy 🙄” INCORRECT BUZZER people hate costume=consent!!
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@Grand_JazzyStar This! They dont want to hear their "whimsy" can be problematic. I dont mind fleaing. Create a "flea me" tag or keep it among friends you know. I do find it whimsical, just not a whimsy I want to unconsentingly be part of. Trauma sucks, but it is what it is.
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@Grand_JazzyStar Agreed! I feel like furries get so into the “We need to be whimsical and fun!” mindset to the point where they forget that sometimes people just don’t want to be touched even if they’re dressed up as an animal
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@Grand_JazzyStar Fr like it a fun game but play with people who are okay with it in a big friend group sounds like a fan gotcha with the group.
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@Grand_JazzyStar Or if people could just shut the fuck up about a super minor inconvenience instead of making it their whole life. This is why furry cons are lame as fuck, they only bring up current memes and bitch about things like clothes pins on their fursuits.
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@Grand_JazzyStar I completely agree, where is the fun in a game where you might ruin someone’s day or even con for that matter.
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@Grand_JazzyStar Imagine your whole day was ruined over a fucking clothespin. Lol. What are we doing. And consent? If when I was in school and someone put a sticky note on me I don't think I would be bitching about consent.
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@Grand_JazzyStar It's very telling when some people indicate they aren't comfortable with something, and the response from some is "You're no fun!" and then try to push boundaries under the guise of things like "having whimsey". Also telling that the people pushing are MAGA like 90% of the time
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@Grand_JazzyStar hi i don't agree with u at all but i wanted to tell u that i love ur pfp actually. very pretty !
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@Grand_JazzyStar Putting this here as my own experience. I’ve been has a flea put on me before it was a whatever thing for me but I think it’s very understandable to be a bit unnerved because it’s weird knowing someone touched you without you knowing at all and your handler didnt see them
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@Grand_JazzyStar Though tbh it seems most people only found out WAY later that they picked up a flea. Usually, the flea over would be long gone by then
So I honestly dont see how one would get upset over it. You’re in broad public I feel like you’d have some sense of security and not fear a clip
So I honestly dont see how one would get upset over it. You’re in broad public I feel like you’d have some sense of security and not fear a clip
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@Grand_JazzyStar you made me remember one time someone grabbed my arm and tried to pull me to take pictures and that made me never want to go to a con again 😶
I mean I wouldnt mind a friend doing it but it was a random stranger
I mean I wouldnt mind a friend doing it but it was a random stranger
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@Grand_JazzyStar If that ruins a con for you you’re just a pathetic loser idk what to tell you
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@Grand_JazzyStar @Guard_Mutt This is all that needs to be done
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