"Don't live by the promises of someone who no longer exists in the emotional state in which they made them."
"You cannot find closure by asking someone else to write the final chapter of a story you must learn to finish yourself."
"She will choose the man who could give her ver the man who made her want something she could not buy."
These from my SStack articles, which I share daily on TikTok (link below).
"You cannot find closure by asking someone else to write the final chapter of a story you must learn to finish yourself."
"She will choose the man who could give her ver the man who made her want something she could not buy."
These from my SStack articles, which I share daily on TikTok (link below).
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Guys are sold through convenience.
Men used to court women because they knew marriage was often the only socially acceptable path to sex.
And when sex happened before marriage, it was more commonly within an established relationship.
Now, women drive straight to men's houses, while other men feel demoralized about putting effort into courtship because they see a small minority of men receiving intimacy with little effort.
Women say they want flowers, romance, and courtship, yet some give men the intimacy they desire without even getting to know them. They reward men for simply existing.
"But my boyfriend and I slept together on the first date!"
That's misleading. Just because you married someone you slept with on the first date doesn't mean you'd encourage your daughter to sleep with every man she goes on a first date with.
Casual sex was never inherently empowering. In many ways, it simply encouraged women to adopt the same sexual behaviors traditionally associated with men.
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I do empathise with women sometimes when I look at the raw texts shit they send me.
Indecisive, lack of confidence or the opposite from obvious LARPing from them and the men are completely oblivious.
This is what happens when both genders BS are not being called out by the people they listen to and they double down on stupid.
Indecisive, lack of confidence or the opposite from obvious LARPing from them and the men are completely oblivious.
This is what happens when both genders BS are not being called out by the people they listen to and they double down on stupid.
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Having rigid rules is usually a sign of lack of discernment, so they are made as a crutch to rely on.
I personally rarely called an uber for a chick but off the top of my head it would also lean close to the 100%.
I knew a guy who did it regularly and he was banging constantly, but he was also qualifying so hard before ordering it my friends and I nicknamed him Docusign, as the process he ran was so jarring and trying to avoid any plausible deniability.
I personally rarely called an uber for a chick but off the top of my head it would also lean close to the 100%.
I knew a guy who did it regularly and he was banging constantly, but he was also qualifying so hard before ordering it my friends and I nicknamed him Docusign, as the process he ran was so jarring and trying to avoid any plausible deniability.
I have smashed every single woman I have ever called an Uber for.
100% close rate.
If you're screening them properly, calling them a car is a slam dunk.
She's basically saying "I don't need my independence tonight, I'll just be there on your terms."
Why wouldn't that be a good thing?
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Apparently being intentional about dating is her framing you as the cuck and hold whilst she is getting banged out on the side by her friend with benefit receiving the dividends.
The subtext of her “intentional dating” response is the distinction she draws between men she dates intentionally and men she sleeps with casually.
In other words, the man she considers boyfriend material is subjected to a longer vesting period than the men who never intended to invest.
In Layman’s terms => she is ran through.
If you are in this situation it is better just to ghost, that open loop will drive her crazy, and you can sip your drink whilst she is losing it.
Telling her why you are not seeing her again is giving her mercy she does not deserve.
The subtext of her “intentional dating” response is the distinction she draws between men she dates intentionally and men she sleeps with casually.
In other words, the man she considers boyfriend material is subjected to a longer vesting period than the men who never intended to invest.
In Layman’s terms => she is ran through.
If you are in this situation it is better just to ghost, that open loop will drive her crazy, and you can sip your drink whilst she is losing it.
Telling her why you are not seeing her again is giving her mercy she does not deserve.
My friend went on 3 great dates with a girl (yes this included dinner dates), no sex. I told him he’s cooked, that he should cut his losses.
The girl wasn’t happy when he told her it’s over. Was he too harsh towards her? Should he have done a fourth date?
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Morality tells you what you should expect from people. Understanding tells you what you can actually expect from them. Confusing the two leaves you perpetually surprised by reality.
@AliStachscan’t read between the lines, or you are blind.
Your morality can be as much a strength as a weakness. But in your case, it is the latter, because it fuels your expectations of how you ought to be treated when nobody owes you shit.
In a perfect world, everybody would abide by the rules of polite society. But in an imperfect one, using morality to dictate how others should behave rather than understanding how they actually behave leaves you perpetually annoyed, reactive, and at the mercy of circumstances you cannot control.
Your moral righteousness becomes a substitute for your lack of understanding and power.
That is how you end up being emotionally led.
This is free game, by the way.
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I remember pillow talking with this northern english chick, she was a top class charmer.
I said something along these lines:
“let me guess, you have no problem getting guys hooked onto you, you go onto these dates and you run the show because you know what you are doing, the guys are enchanted you have provided them with a good time during the date but by the end of it you are underwhelmed because they are so predictable, they feel a connection with you when you have done all the emotional leading and there is nothing you want with them when the bills come. So you end up with cokeheads because they are the only ones who break the pattern, and you can follow their degen lead.”
The look on her face - priceless. She asked if I was a psychic. I said yes to see how long I could wind her up.
I said something along these lines:
“let me guess, you have no problem getting guys hooked onto you, you go onto these dates and you run the show because you know what you are doing, the guys are enchanted you have provided them with a good time during the date but by the end of it you are underwhelmed because they are so predictable, they feel a connection with you when you have done all the emotional leading and there is nothing you want with them when the bills come. So you end up with cokeheads because they are the only ones who break the pattern, and you can follow their degen lead.”
The look on her face - priceless. She asked if I was a psychic. I said yes to see how long I could wind her up.
@FrenchOG3 Fair enough. So I need to have some deep level of understanding that after such a strong connection with someone they don't even feel the need to text goodbye
Nah how about fuck that. and I just not ever take them seriously. Everyday y'all seem to add more effort to court sluts
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If you listen carefully, she will give you the game on how you can manufacture attraction turning her lust for attention against her and alchemise it into investment.
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If a chick sends the HR text, at best it is for her and tying loose ends, at worst it is her assuming I cannot read the room which is insulting in and of itself.
But guys majorly preferring the polite break-up text mostly tells me they can’t deal with uncertainty. And if you inty, you can’t play with tension.
If you can’t play with tension, you are automatically playing to her tune, cuz she manages the emotional realm better than you.
But guys majorly preferring the polite break-up text mostly tells me they can’t deal with uncertainty. And if you inty, you can’t play with tension.
If you can’t play with tension, you are automatically playing to her tune, cuz she manages the emotional realm better than you.
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The more something is scarce the more it is valuable. Lean body is one of them.
I've seen a LOT of dating app profiles
Believe me when I say:
The single highest-ROI thing you can do for dating success is to get lean and show it off
Get lean
& Show it OFF
There's nothing that screams "sex appeal" more than visible abs & veins
There's nothing that screams "hot guy& granite chin
This needs to be your #1 priority
GET LEAN
and
SHOW IT OFF
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Cheating has more to do with access to new products you previously could not afford to buy and you want to try (here it is people).
Women monkey branch too, or seek higher value partners when they move up and their partners don’t. Men are generally more loyal in their relationships despite the cheating as they treat it as some extra treat, but don’t want to leave the wife.
“She is not out of your league, she is just out of your price range” - CGA
People usually upgrade their lifestyle when they have the means for it.
Your expenditures move in line with your disposable income.
Basic economics.
Women monkey branch too, or seek higher value partners when they move up and their partners don’t. Men are generally more loyal in their relationships despite the cheating as they treat it as some extra treat, but don’t want to leave the wife.
“She is not out of your league, she is just out of your price range” - CGA
People usually upgrade their lifestyle when they have the means for it.
Your expenditures move in line with your disposable income.
Basic economics.
This is the reason a LOT of people cheat
They get their first taste of ego and you find out who they really are
Sometimes they use their newfound “cool” to be extra nice to people, OR they see it as a license to treat those around them poorly
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He should have gone on the Netflix serial killer documentary rather than “Love Is Blind”. He would have got thousands of love letters and gone from creep to keep.
@TheMagaHulk A good job doesn't fix bad genetics
Jax is mid but would likely have attractive children with an attractive man
Stew looks like a weirdo and would probably give a pretty woman weird looking kids
Any man who can potentially cook your bloodline is a CHUD no matter his job
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